Rozanda "Chilli" Thomas is a FANtabulous Doll who just doesn't seem to age nor get caught up in the Hollyweird dating dishasters. But when she does speak her mind (espesh now as she revs up for her uber sexxxy dating reality show that premiers this Sunday) we gush all over her dating epistomology. The perspective of this seasoned beauty is impeccable. Cliff Notes: NO! You don't have to shag every beau you audition for a starring role in your darling heart. She fesses on her Vibe blog...
..."When you truly, truly love somebody and it’s a healthy love, you always want to make sure you’re healthy yourself before entering a relationship and give that person your time. That’s why they call it dating. Dating doesn’t mean we’re sleeping together. Dating doesn’t mean I’m your girlfriend, you’re my boyfriend. It means that we are exclusively dating each other trying to get to know each other, figure out each other’s personalities, see if we click, if our morals are intact—all those things. And then you can graduate to the next level of the relationship."
And we couldn't agree more. Shagging every delish dude who takes you to Red Lobster or Cipriani can inevitably lead to you keying his wheels and/or stalking his rottweiler when the oxytocin speedballs through your veins and your needy, clingy texts, IMs, BBMs and emails hear crickets.
According to the almighty Wikipedia ...
"DATING is a form of courtship, and may include any social activity undertaken by, typically, two persons with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as a partner in an intimate relationship or as a spouse. The word refers to the act of meeting and engaging in some mutually agreed upon social activity. Traditional dating activities include entertainment or a meal."
Take notes, Dolls! You're fabulous and you're oh sooo worth it!
P.S. But if a shag session tops your performance rider, then by all means...
xoxo,
YOUR BIGGEST CHEERLEADER! 
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